Alvin & Yuki ❤❤❤

In just the past couple of months there have been quite a few scandals popping up in the news. I've been resisting the urge to comment on it because 1) this is not a gossip blog, and 2) I really can't be bothered to find out the facts so that I can give a proper commentary on the subject. But then today I stumbled upon this bullshit and I couldn't help but check it out. It seems, though, that there isn't much talk from the involved parties themselves, just a whole lot of rubbish from people who probably don't even know Alvin, or Yuki, or Zoe themselves.

If you want to know the facts, Google that shit. I'm not going to go into the details. Basically Alvin was supposed to get married to Yuki in 2 months, and then called it off because some cheating came to light and now Yuki went out and started the Facebook page "sharing" her story (I presume to get sympathy comments) and now a bunch of white knight beta males are jumping into the fray, slandering the good names of Alvin and Zoe. The ONLY source of the story available is Yuki's side, which if you read it, will know that it's layered with a lot of emotional talk and one-sided views. Still, I will try to pull out the objective facts from that account.

Firstly I will say this,

Everyone here is at fault. And everyone is the victim.

Alvin

Judging from the looks of this dude, it's not that difficult to see why he would cheat on Yuki.

Standard beta fare. I wonder how it's even possible for him to get caught up in this scandal involving two pretty decent looking girls. Maybe dude's got game. I've no idea. But judging PURELY from the pictures on the Facebook page, I would say he's none too charming. I think it might be his giant junk.

The thing that most guys don't understand is that, men are born players. We want a harem of women. It's our biological imperative to spread our genetic material far and wide. However, society has brainwashed us otherwise. We are a generation of men raised by women. Monogamy, is a concept created by women FOR women (granted it also helps beta males by guaranteeing each man a mate in life). But that's where the problem lies.

Alvin Yang is a man with needs. Needs that I doubt Yuki can fulfill. She, for one, is not that attractive and thus it's understandable that she would be emotionally-dependent on Alvin to the point that she would attempt to take her life after the marriage was called off. It's clear that as far as she's concerned, Alvin is the best man for her. Alvin wants to do the right thing by marrying her. But when society's expectations and your biological needs meet head on, you end up with a predicament such as this.

I say good on you, Alvin. You followed your heart (and your penis) and did what is right.

Now before you start hating on me, while I think Alvin made the right choice, I don't think he went about it the right way. First, he dated Yuki for an extended period of time--exclusively. That right there is the problem. If a girl is going to be your girlfriend, you damn well make sure she's the best one for you. Moreover if you're planning to marry her, don't be a douchebag and break it off two months prior to the wedding day.

If you want to marry a girl, you should be at least 100% sure that she's the right one for you. If not, date a few other girls and choose from the best. Clearly Yuki isn't the one, because based on her account of what happened (filtering through the bullshit emotions and just pulling facts), Alvin lost interest in her quite far into the relationship.

Alvin doesn't offer his side of the story so it's hard to know what truly went down. But then again, him coming out and saying anything will just make things worse. But it seems like he doesn't give a shit about her anymore. For good reasons, I presume. Marriage is a tool used to lock down a man, and that's when women think they can let go and not care about their looks or anything anymore. Yuki seems to be getting old. She wants to marry you because she's already past her genetic prime. Alvin, on the other hand seems to be hot stuff--proven by the fact he managed to snag Zoe Raymond on the side.

My advice to you, Alvin, would be to start dating a whole bunch of girls and really screening them and finding the most suitable girl for you--one that you would not cheat on because it'll be stupid to do so. One that can cater to your desires as a man, and that you would be more than happy to be with and married to. Don't buy into the female imperative that is trying to get you off the dating market prematurely and locked down in marriage.

Yuki

Yuki, Yuki, Yuki...such a queer person. Clearly she has issues. Don't believe me? Explain to me why would she then blow this whole situation to such huge proportions? Creating a Facebook page for named Alvin & Yuki when the both of them aren't engaged anymore. Attempting to commit suicide just because of this, and then feeding into the whole saga just to fuel her narcissistic supply.

Sure, she's the victim here for one reason and one reason only: Alvin cheated on her. Even with that it's not like she's without any blame entirely. The reason why men cheat is simple: you're not keeping up to your end of the bargain as a girlfriend/wife/spouse. When love is lost, it's not because people change--it's because YOU changed.

Think about it. He loves you, you love him. You get together. And 3 years later, he doesn't love you but you still love him. Hmmm, I wonder what caused it. Yuki has a very strong victim-mentality which is constantly being fed by the feminists and the white knights of the social media world. Just visit the Facebook page and you'll see all her "supporters". These people don't know the objective truth and yet they form such strong opinions about the person's moral worth and character.

You might say I'm doing the same, no I'm not. I have no opinions on the matter; I'm just pointing out possible reasons why things turn out the way they did and analyzing them from my perspective. I'm using this scandal to springboard into a larger issue. I'm not really talking about the actual scandal at hand.

On a good day, Yuki is a 7 at best. She is getting old and she knows it. Which is probably why she is clinging on so desperately to Alvin. She knows her dating market value is declining QUICK, and she hopes to lock Alvin down as soon as possible. The thing about men is our market value increases with age. It is a fact that men age like wine, which is why the feminist society constantly tries to hide the fact by making men idealize monogamy. Monogamy works for women, not for men--at least not until you're above 40.

Subconsciously, Yuki knows that. She knows that the longer she takes the less Alvin will desire her which clearly is the case at hand. Alvin realized that there are better prospects out there (Zoe Raymond) and so lost interest in Yuki.

Going back to the first point, it seems that Yuki is someone who has serious issues. And if it's one thing that repels men far, FAR away--it's drama. Most people don't think about this: what Alvin and Yuki's everyday relationship must be like. If you think she was a perfectly normal, sweet girl who had her precious heart broken, you're probably wrong. Normal, sweet girls don't attempt suicide. Normal, sweet girls don't start a Facebook page and upload all their couple photos and gather sympathy votes. No, normal, sweet girls call their girlfriends and cry about it. They take all their couple memorabilia and burn them. And even that might be near the edge.

Yuki's reaction is not normal, it's not sweet--it's borderline psycho. Even if Zoe is the catalyst, Yuki's behavior must have triggered some unhappiness in the relationship prior to its end. Suppose Zoe didn't come into the picture, would Alvin and Yuki really have been happy together? Marriage is not the end. It's not the happily ever after that most of you fantasize about. No. It needs work. And if Yuki can't hold Alvin even before they got married, who's to say that 2-3 years into their marriage that Alvin wouldn't cheat on her? Wouldn't that be worse? Is Alvin really the douchebag for seeking his own happiness when he can't find it with Yuki?

Zoe

It's easy to villainize Zoe in this whole saga. Calling her the "third-party", a "slut", and basically slandering her all over the Internet. For what reason? Because Yuki cried foul and claimed to be the victim? Because Zoe "broke up" a "perfectly good relationship"? Please. Zoe is only a catalyst. Is it so wrong that she seeks her own happiness?

Though I must say she shouldn't have done it. As much as I joke about it often, I don't think it's right to make someone cheat on their partners with you. But who's really at fault here? The white knights will jump in and call Zoe a slutwhorecuntbitchslut. These guys are too brainwashed in the feminine imperative to see what's really going on here.

I must say I really respect Zoe. Despite being bombarded all over by these antagonizers, she has not given in to them. Her attempted indifference is really respectable. It's the only way to deal with all these self-righteous assholes. Ignore them and they slink back into the darkness.

Now I'm not entirely on Zoe's side either. According to some sources, she had done the same thing before--breaking up another couple. And for that, I would think that she's quite the bitch. But only because someone like her, who obviously has her long line of suitors, has to stoop to that level. But I guess it's only her biology at work here. Pre-selection is a powerful attraction switch. Maybe it's because she has always had men bending their backs to her will so often that she just wants someone different. But it seems Alvin might not be too different after all, with the gifts and all that.

What Zoe needs is a real man, which she will not be able to find by dating men in exclusive relationships with other girls. Sure, you can have your fun. But is it really worth it? Will the guy really want to be with you after he breaks up with his current girlfriend? I sympathize with Zoe but I can only say she brought it all upon herself.

If what Yuki recounted was to be believed, Zoe knew what was going on between Yuki and Alvin and was still trying to break them up intentionally, though not explicitly. You have a boyfriend, he is engaged, even if you were "just friends", boundaries still have to be established. But clearly, she knew that they weren't "just friends" either. The argument that "if their relationship was strong, she wouldn't have been able to break them apart" is bullshit. Don't try to pull that shit, Zoe.

*****

That's really all I have to say. I'm not really too concerned about this scandal as it involves a bunch of random people that I haven't even heard of prior to this incident. My main concern is all the white knight men out there who think it's their duty to stand for Yuki and slander Zoe or Alvin, or feeding into Yuki's victim-mentality: You're not helping anyone by doing that, in fact, you're just making things worse.

No one gives a shit about your self-righteous crusade on sluts. You probably can't get any pussy and that's why you're bitter. You're just a bitter, jealous boy sitting in front of your computer wondering why guys like Alvin manage to get themselves into these "problems", while you sit at home with your dick in your hand, jerking off, wondering why you don't have a girlfriend. It's because you're a loser.

I have no sympathy for you.