5 Reasons You Should Daygame Alone

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Hi, there. I decided to take a break this month due to new commitments coming up that require a lot of my time. But, that being said, it doesn’t mean I stopped working on game. In fact, I just got home from a day game session and figured it was worth sharing even though I didn’t get any numbers today.

My usual daygame routine involves me meeting the guys and just hanging out around town and casually approach girls that catch our eye. While that’s good and all, we weren’t seeing growth in a long time. So today we decided to switch things up a bit and do day game alone.

I’ve written a few articles on the importance of having wingmen but I’ve also met guys who then use it as an excuse not to go out. My wing’s and my schedules clash so we can’t head out. I find that it’s a bullshit excuse. Your growth is your responsibility. Especially if you are new, it is important to experience being alone. Today was the first time in a long while where I actually head out alone with the sole intention of meeting girls and this is what I learned:

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Blast Through Inertia; Know The Roadmap To Get To The End

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I decided to take a break from posting because I’ve been busy a bunch recently. Just last weekend, a friend of mine was running one of his dating/pick up classes and I sat in to watch. He invited me up to speak for a bit at the end of the two day course and despite having close to no sleep (1 hour nap after a full night of partying) and having lost my voice (you can hear it crack from time the time in the video), I took up the challenge.

I’m not much of a public speaker and this is no TED talk, but I do aim to improve it through getting opportunities such as these. It was a small group of about four people, but some is better than none. I appreciate constructive criticism, and hope you enjoy the video.

Learn how to blast through inertia.

(I also realize this is the first time I’m showing my face on this blog. Enjoy my face.)

Take The Red Pill: The Woman In The Red Dress

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The Matrix is one of the most brilliant movies of our generation. It aptly describes much of the problems our society faces today. However it is not a new concept. Wise men throughout history–from Grecian philosophers, to French thinkers–have heralded the downfall of society before their time. Societies rise and fall in cyclical patterns, and a lot of it is tied to the mainstream ideological narratives that the people buy into. The Matrix repackages it merely in a medium that people of our generation can understand. Yet, many times these warnings go by unheeded and with good reason. When hearing ideas as presented in the Matrix, most people immediately group themselves with the protagonist. They think they are the unplugged ones; that everyone else is plugged into the illusion, but only they themselves see reality as it truly is. They don’t question their beliefs and surround themselves with narratives that echo their existing opinions.

I discuss a lot about the dangers of feminism and the feminine imperative, and honestly I do get a little bit antagonistic at times. However do not mistake me as painting feminists as “evil”. There is no morality in biology, there are only actions and consequences. Our collective actions progress society in a predetermined path. And throughout every cycle, men have tried to fight the system and failed. It is a struggle we are doomed to fight to the end of time. Yet it doesn’t mean we should stop trying.

One particular scene in the movie struck me with regards to the modern sexual market and gender dynamics.

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He For She? More Like Everyone For She

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It seems that feminists have found a new poster child after the recent exposure (literally) of media sensation, Jennifer Lawrence. Since then, Emma Watson has taken up the mantle to speak up for women’s rights in front of the world’s most powerful leaders. While Watson has been a long-time feminist, the timely appearance of her speech only causes one to question whether campaigns to save Lawrence’s public image has failed and therefore discarded in hopes that everyone will forget about it soon.

Within the first minute of Watson’s speech, every fiber in my body started to cringe, urging me to close the video. But I know how that’s like, when people listen to something they disagree with, their first reaction is to turn it off or stop listening. And so I watched, trying to hold off my biases. But the more I watched, the more I realized that Watson was just repeating every feminist spiel I’ve heard before. There is nothing new. She’s just a pretty mouthpiece from which feminist ignorance cometh forth.

If you haven’t watched it yet, just YouTube “Emma Watson HeForShe Speech”.

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Text Game: Follow Up To The Date

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J. D. Reuel: Today’s article is a guest post by one of the most solid guys I know. I’ve been winging with MC for the past two years or so and I honestly couldn’t ask for a better wingman. Remember previously I mentioned how I had problems getting the girls to reply to my texts? Well, he read through my texts and really showed me what I was doing wrongly. And guess what! I managed to set up a day 2 tomorrow from a number I got last week. So I’m confident when I say MC knows what he’s talking about. See for yourself.

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Imagine having a great interaction with a really hot girl with a sweet bubbly personality which makes your dick hard and your face smile wider than Barney the Dinosaur.  You get her digits, all excited to text her, bring her out for an amazing date, get her naked, and make her cum.

You get home and send her that first text on WhatsApp. You wait anxiously.

No reply.

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The North Wind And The Sun

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No one can top the Greeks when it comes to teaching virtue succinctly. While there are many interpretations to this fable, the brilliance is in its universality to all areas in life. It espouses the virtue of effortless strength, which describes masculinity quite perfectly.

For those who do not have a childhood and are thus unfamiliar with this little fable, here it is:

THE NORTH WIND and the Sun disputed as to which was the most powerful, and agreed that he should be declared the victor who could first strip a wayfaring man of his clothes. The North Wind first tried his power and blew with all his might, but the keener his blasts, the closer the Traveler wrapped his cloak around him, until at last, resigning all hope of victory, the Wind called upon the Sun to see what he could do. The Sun suddenly shone out with all his warmth. The Traveler no sooner felt his genial rays than he took off one garment after another, and at last, fairly overcome with heat, undressed and bathed in a stream that lay in his path.

A lot of times in game and in life, we try to force our way through towards our goals. But we find that the harder we try, the more resistance we face and the more we tire. Sometimes it is far better to build on your inner characteristics and let your strength radiate from within. It’s not about trading blows with life, which you will soon find that the harder you hit, the harder it hits back.

Be the sun.

 

Attachment To Perfection; One Of The Biggest Obstacles

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Today’s article is going to be a bit more of a thought-stream style journal, rather than the structured, point-by-point articles I’ve been writing. If I were to objectively assess where I am in game right now, I would say I have mastered (at least the most congruent style to my personality) the art of pulling up my bootstraps, overcoming approach anxiety, stopping the girl, carrying on a fun conversation, and getting her number. I’ve done this hundreds of times over the past two (almost three years) that I can say it takes almost no effort to do so. However when it comes to converting numbers to dates, I can’t seem to get the optimal success ratio even though I can get at least three to five numbers on any given weekend.

This got me thinking about my own game. I’ve consulted online material, wings who have had more success in this area, and even friends who don’t do game but are naturals when it comes to women. Somehow, it seems though, that I still continually hit this roadblock where girls just don’t seem too keen on following up. Most guys will then immediately say that maybe pickup just doesn’t work in Singapore. But if this were true then my buddies with whom I game wouldn’t be getting the results they are getting.

So what is it that I’m doing wrong?

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Female Sexual Liberation And The Rape of JLaw

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In case you guys have been living under a rock and haven’t heard the latest scandal: nude photos of Jennifer Lawrence has been leaked. Yes, feminists’ poster girl, and disgustingly fat JLaw (sarcasm intended). While usually I don’t even bother with things like these, I recently chanced upon tweets by people who clearly rate quite high on the idiot spectrum.

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Picking Up Singaporean Girls On The Streets

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Some time back I chanced upon an article by BodiPUA (One of the LDM guys) who claimed that Singaporean girls are “virtually un-daygameable”. Now, this is not news; I’ve heard the same thing from guys who are not even going out there to approach, and I usually just laugh it off. Coming from a dude who is famous for scoring multiple lays on Euro jaunts, this requires more looking into.

He doesn’t explain much about his negative experiences approaching Singaporean girls on the streets when the Sun is up. The only thing I got from reading it was that he approached two girls, who turned out to be time-wasters, and then resorted to Tinder.

I wouldn’t agree that it is a fair assessment of the viability of daygame in Singapore. But having seen multiple guys dabble in it for a couple of months and then give up, it does raise some questions.

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Respect The Hustle

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Today was a pretty eye opening day. Decided to start on keeping track of my approaches and trying to draw the best lessons from each one (even those that I weasel out from approaching). Got a number and a Facebook close today. Out of five approaches–two of which were girls who were too young for me. Anyway, bumped into one of the guys I talked about in the last post (let’s call him SN2) and decided to hang out for a bit and wing him a bit to see what I can pick up from him. Good energy. Kept a field report which I will share in the future but one of the key things I’ve learned today was that you should always respect the hustle.

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