Text Game: Follow Up To The Date

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J. D. Reuel: Today’s article is a guest post by one of the most solid guys I know. I’ve been winging with MC for the past two years or so and I honestly couldn’t ask for a better wingman. Remember previously I mentioned how I had problems getting the girls to reply to my texts? Well, he read through my texts and really showed me what I was doing wrongly. And guess what! I managed to set up a day 2 tomorrow from a number I got last week. So I’m confident when I say MC knows what he’s talking about. See for yourself.

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Imagine having a great interaction with a really hot girl with a sweet bubbly personality which makes your dick hard and your face smile wider than Barney the Dinosaur.  You get her digits, all excited to text her, bring her out for an amazing date, get her naked, and make her cum.

You get home and send her that first text on WhatsApp. You wait anxiously.

No reply.

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The North Wind And The Sun

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No one can top the Greeks when it comes to teaching virtue succinctly. While there are many interpretations to this fable, the brilliance is in its universality to all areas in life. It espouses the virtue of effortless strength, which describes masculinity quite perfectly.

For those who do not have a childhood and are thus unfamiliar with this little fable, here it is:

THE NORTH WIND and the Sun disputed as to which was the most powerful, and agreed that he should be declared the victor who could first strip a wayfaring man of his clothes. The North Wind first tried his power and blew with all his might, but the keener his blasts, the closer the Traveler wrapped his cloak around him, until at last, resigning all hope of victory, the Wind called upon the Sun to see what he could do. The Sun suddenly shone out with all his warmth. The Traveler no sooner felt his genial rays than he took off one garment after another, and at last, fairly overcome with heat, undressed and bathed in a stream that lay in his path.

A lot of times in game and in life, we try to force our way through towards our goals. But we find that the harder we try, the more resistance we face and the more we tire. Sometimes it is far better to build on your inner characteristics and let your strength radiate from within. It’s not about trading blows with life, which you will soon find that the harder you hit, the harder it hits back.

Be the sun.

 

Attachment To Perfection; One Of The Biggest Obstacles

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Today’s article is going to be a bit more of a thought-stream style journal, rather than the structured, point-by-point articles I’ve been writing. If I were to objectively assess where I am in game right now, I would say I have mastered (at least the most congruent style to my personality) the art of pulling up my bootstraps, overcoming approach anxiety, stopping the girl, carrying on a fun conversation, and getting her number. I’ve done this hundreds of times over the past two (almost three years) that I can say it takes almost no effort to do so. However when it comes to converting numbers to dates, I can’t seem to get the optimal success ratio even though I can get at least three to five numbers on any given weekend.

This got me thinking about my own game. I’ve consulted online material, wings who have had more success in this area, and even friends who don’t do game but are naturals when it comes to women. Somehow, it seems though, that I still continually hit this roadblock where girls just don’t seem too keen on following up. Most guys will then immediately say that maybe pickup just doesn’t work in Singapore. But if this were true then my buddies with whom I game wouldn’t be getting the results they are getting.

So what is it that I’m doing wrong?

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Female Sexual Liberation And The Rape of JLaw

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In case you guys have been living under a rock and haven’t heard the latest scandal: nude photos of Jennifer Lawrence has been leaked. Yes, feminists’ poster girl, and disgustingly fat JLaw (sarcasm intended). While usually I don’t even bother with things like these, I recently chanced upon tweets by people who clearly rate quite high on the idiot spectrum.

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Picking Up Singaporean Girls On The Streets

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Some time back I chanced upon an article by BodiPUA (One of the LDM guys) who claimed that Singaporean girls are “virtually un-daygameable”. Now, this is not news; I’ve heard the same thing from guys who are not even going out there to approach, and I usually just laugh it off. Coming from a dude who is famous for scoring multiple lays on Euro jaunts, this requires more looking into.

He doesn’t explain much about his negative experiences approaching Singaporean girls on the streets when the Sun is up. The only thing I got from reading it was that he approached two girls, who turned out to be time-wasters, and then resorted to Tinder.

I wouldn’t agree that it is a fair assessment of the viability of daygame in Singapore. But having seen multiple guys dabble in it for a couple of months and then give up, it does raise some questions.

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Respect The Hustle

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Today was a pretty eye opening day. Decided to start on keeping track of my approaches and trying to draw the best lessons from each one (even those that I weasel out from approaching). Got a number and a Facebook close today. Out of five approaches–two of which were girls who were too young for me. Anyway, bumped into one of the guys I talked about in the last post (let’s call him SN2) and decided to hang out for a bit and wing him a bit to see what I can pick up from him. Good energy. Kept a field report which I will share in the future but one of the key things I’ve learned today was that you should always respect the hustle.

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Pick-Up Artists In Singapore!!!

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If you’ve read the book The Game by Neil Strauss or have been around community forums or websites, you’d probably have heard of words like sarging, AA, negging, and other cringeworthy terminology made popular by pick-up artists. Among the guys I usually head out with, these terms have become inside jokes. When a guy comes up to us and asks if we are “sarging” (the community term for going out and pick up girls), we usually laugh and say no.

We’re not lying. Our purpose of being out is not to pick-up girls but to really hang out. Pick-up is just a common interest that we share. We’d usually be just hanging out and shooting the shit, and if a cute girl walks by, one of us will go.

Or not, there’s no pressure at all. It is basically a habit that has become normalized.

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The Conversation Blueprint, Part 6: The Art Of Push/Pull; How To Tease Or Compliment A Girl

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What’s up, homies.

Today I want to take it back to basics to the art of conversation. The age old question of what to say after you stop her on the streets and say hi. This is where guys usually freeze (especially if you are introverted like me).

For the more extroverted guys it might be easier to run your golden mouthpiece, but when you’re new to the game it does take a lot of time to get comfortable in conversations.

If you are still not fully comfortable talking to strangers, I’d advise you to keep it simple. Sure, it might be boring but who knows, you just might charm her with your authenticity.

This article, however, is for the intermediate players–for those who’ve a couple hundred approaches under your belt. That’s not to say newbies can’t try it out, but it does require a bit of social awareness and calibration to pull off with precision.

I’ve had many guys ask me how to flirt with a girl. It is a valid question. Flirting is a subtle yet powerful aspect of attraction. Get it right and the girl will fall in love with you. Get it wrong, however, and she will be turned off.

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Are You Man Or Mouse?

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Today there was a very interesting discussion going on in my class. We were all asked to group ourselves according to whatever ethnic and religious cultural group we identify with. I joined the agnostic group and we had to address a few questions given to us. One of the questions was asking what people in our culture viewed as physically attractive and what we thought was the root of this view. A girl in our group immediately said “Well, we all know what you guys are thinking” and the other girl laughed. I said, well boobs and ass of course. And the group burst out laughing. Except this one guy. The girls of course feigned indignation but weren’t the least offended. That one guy, however, said–in the softest least assertive voice one can have–“Can you guys stop being so offensive.”

No one heard him, or at least they chose to ignore him. Mr Killjoy. Mr Can’t Take A Joke. This was the same guy who previously remarked that identifying as a man was sexist. I straight up told him to get the fuck out of the group (in as nice a tone as possible) if he was so ashamed of calling himself a man.

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Multiple Long-Term Relationships, Part 1: Being The Right Man

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When people find out I am juggling multiple long-term relationships, they inevitably ask me the same few questions. Do both of them know? Who is better? Won’t they get jealous? Where do you find the time or energy? To answer the first question, yes they both know about each other’s existence and are aware of the fact I am still going out regularly to game. I find that this is a topic that is rarely, if ever, approached due to the stigma behind it. Many skilled practitioners in the community, in fact, do juggle multiple relationships at once. I wouldn’t say I am on the level but I push myself to do be the best I can and learn as much from life. Many guys I know who come into the community want to get a girlfriend and settle down. Monogamy is not a bad thing, but it can be destructive. (Edit: I am not polygamous or polyamorous. I still identify as being a single man who dates.)

In this article I want to address a fundamental problem that most guys have when it comes to how they view themselves, relationships, and in turn, how they treat women. My answer to “Who is better?” is simple.

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